I think it is an individual thing, but I want to hear from you guys. In my opinion, lesbians tend to move quickly. If they like each other they have sex and figure the rest out later. This is a general thing in my opinion. But, there will be times when “lets take it slow” comes in the equation. For straight people, it seems like the woman is expected to “take things slow.”
How slow is slow? This goes for straight and gay people. Should the two say they will date exclusively before they have sex? Should there be some sort of commitment on the table?
The Prospect and I have talked about a lot of things and this includes taking things “slow.” She wants to find the “one” and doesn’t just want to have sex yet. She like most people, including myself, have been there and done that already. I also would like to settle down for real. You know, long-term with an end game of marriage.
I am good with the taking it slow thing. But, we have moved past a few bases – nothing major though. I am going to see how “slow” is “slow.” All I am saying, is I have an appointment with my doctor this week to get tested. I’m just saying. Don’t judge, I like being prepared. She has an appointment too actually. I am not sure if her appointment was already booked. I booked mine Monday, lol.
If we are really trying to do the “right” thing here and move in that direction, I am going to have to keep my hands to myself.
Personally, I am completely cool with having sex once we are both clear with our papers.