Internet dating that is…
I have a question folks…
Can you be in love with someone you have never met? Someone you haven’t even seen a picture of?
Now, some of you may be laughing at me with the picture thing. I am serious. A friend of mine was head over heels with a woman she had never laid eyes on. Not even a picture — nada. They spoke on the phone and texted for about 3 months. My friend sent her a trillion pictures, but she did not get a single picture. She flaked on meeting a few times as well.
She was acting like she knew this woman for years. I mean for real. I am going to actually follow this blog with another one about this same situation. I don’t want to get off topic.
She was breaking her neck for phone calls, spent all of her time on the phone and really liked this woman. If the woman said she was going to call at 4, she would stop talking to us @ 3:45. The woman called @ 4:30, lol. Her ass was waiting too. I am not sure the phone even had one good ring. I would have lost interest. I am not that eager to meet these days. I am busy and I am not really on it like that. I wouldn’t take you seriously without a picture and flaking. If I was really trying to meet you and you were doing this shit? Yea…No. My friend is the type to want to meet the same day; She goes hard. I was a bit surprised with her actions.
She was calling the woman her girl. Making plans to spend time with the woman’s daughter and everything. When I would say something like “Why haven’t you guys met?” She would call me negative. What? I was just asking a simple question. I didn’t say “You’re probably wasting your time on a woman who may look like a monkey.” I was just curious. You know, was there something holding them back? It could be anything.
She was acting like this woman was the one.
On Facebook there is a page that gives lesbian advice. It is a fun lil page. I am seeing so many posts on this kinda thing. I was thinking my friend may have been the only loon, NOPE, there are lots of loons, lol.
People are saying things like, they are in love with a woman they have never met. I mean some people have been in “relationships” with people they have never-ever met. One woman said she was with her girl for a year. A year? Seriously? I may be too much of a cynic for this type of thing. Some people are in “relationships” and were asking for advice on meeting for the first time. This one woman really made me “LOL and SMH” when she said she was “in love with a woman, who lives in another state, never met her, and the woman had a boyfriend.” I was like giiiiiiiiiiiirl stop. Just cut it out!
Do you have to have sex with someone to be in love? Do you need to have sex to be in a relationship? You can probably be in love without the sex. I have not done it personally, but I think it is possible.