Kinda on the same note as coming on too strong…
I remember “meeting” a woman online. I responded to her ad and she wrote back like 2 weeks later. I completely forgot about responding in the first place. She wrote back telling me she was sorry she took so long to respond and some other stuff. I decided to send her a picture. I figured, I am going to forget all about the whole email thing. So, why waste time? Let me just send her a picture real quick and take it from there. If she was interested, she would get back to me. I am not sure why I am wasting weeks here. I am not saying we had to meet right away. But, I thought we should exchange pictures. I like to put a picture to the words. At the rate we were going, we would probably send 2 sentence emails for months. It took me like an additional week to even check that email. That isn’t my everyday email address, so it is not checked regularly. So, it was 3 weeks from the time I answered her ad.
I found 3 good pics and hit send. I always like to receive more than one pic, you get a better idea of what you are dealing with, ya know?
I thought my nice gesture of sending first without being asked, would have been met with some kinda, I dunno, something. Well, this woman decided to curse me out. LOL. She sent me an email saying I was a man and a fake. I was so surprised — that had never happened to before. I have met women online in the past, ya know?
I asked her what was she talking about. She told me, I must be a man because I sent my pictures so quickly. I guess a woman wouldn’t do that? I have no idea what rock she crawled from. That is how it works. People talk, exchange pics, blah blah, then they meet if there is an interest. I am just saying.
I told her she was wrong. She went on and on about how she was right. Then she said I was on the site stealing people’s pictures. What? Why on earth would I do this? I was floored. She told me that my 3 pictures looked like 3 different people. LOL. I said “yea, you think so?” She was a mess. I had make up on in one picture, another picture no make up, and the last one was after I had a meeting, so I looked more professional. I still looked like ME. I showed the pics to a friend, and they agreed they all looked like ME. She told me I was a fake. I should have just clicked the “X” and moved on. But, nooooooooooo, not Me. I like foolishness, I guess. Plus, I like to make people feel stupid.
I told her I could prove that I wasn’t a man. She told me I couldn’t and blah blah blah. She was pretty much telling me I was full of shit. Because, if I was serious, I would have sent her my number. So, guess what I did? I sent her my job number. I told her my extension and waited. She called. When I heard the person ask for MY extension, I said, “So, do I sound like a man?” She was shocked. She was sure as hell, I would not answer or something equally stupid.
She was like “I am so sorry, it is just that men play a lot online.” Yea, yea, yea crazy lady. She said “you are pretty.” I asked if she thought so, then why was she giving me such a hard time. She thought the pictures were fake. I told her she cursed me out though, lol. She asked for my cell. I decided to give it to her, yes, I was bored as hell at work. Why was I playing with crazy lady? I had not even seen a picture of her YET. I asked for a picture and she gave me her name to look up on Facebook. I typed her name in and saw a little-ass picture. I did not want to “friend” her so I just clicked the “X”. I didn’t want her to see all my pics and be up in my business. I was still thinking she was crazy. I couldn’t even enlarge the profile picture, because I wasn’t a friend. I couldn’t see much, it kinda looked like a dot, but I knew I wasn’t missing out on anything special. I think she did end up texting a picture to me. I don’t even remember.
Then she started texting me like mad. I mean texts about meeting up, invites to shit, “she was out and was it okay for her to pick me up for lunch.” I never met her. She didn’t stop right away. Now, she liked me? What ever. I think I just wanted to prove that I was not a fake. I don’t like being called a liar.
Did I come on too strong by sending the pictures? I felt she was doing the most afterwards too. Or was she just a nut-job?