What is too strong? When you are interested in someone, how do you go about showing them?
I think most people like a bit of aggression. I say a bit, because too much can be overkill for me.
If you meet a woman and you hit it off, then what? Do you call or text right away? Do you wait a bit? What are you waiting for if you are interested?
Is it okay if a woman you just met said things like “The phone rang 3 times, what took you so long to answer?” Is that cute dating type stuff? What if they laughed after? Would that make it better? I think that is a sign of crazy. But, I guess they could have been joking, right? Would it be okay, if you met someone and they constantly asked “So, when are you coming over?”
I think everything should be done in moderation. People should feel out the person. Do not just jump out the window doing dumb shit.
If I come over to your house, do not try to rip my clothes off at the door. Chill. Have you even thought “does she like me like that?” Some people just do too much.
When I meet someone I like, I will call or text to follow-up. I used to wait a few days though. I never wanted to seem thirsty; I like playing it cool.
When I call, I do not go on and on about myself. I let the woman talk; I want to see if she is interested in talking to me. After all, I called her first. I listen to her — I mean really listen. A few conversations can tell me if I am even interested.
Anyway, I don’t like when women come on super-duper strong. Show interest and let it flow.