Are you a bag lady?

Is this you?

I was listening to Erykah Badu’s Song today, and I wondered how many women really were carrying bags. I know quite a few actually. When does the bags just get too heavy? Do you ever put them down, or just drag them through the rest of your life?

If your woman is the one with all the bags, do you help her carry them? Or do you leave her to do it on her own?

Women will drag along their past all the way into their future. I am not saying we should forget everything; but, we do need to have a healthy outlook though. Bringing the negative things around with you, can’t possibly be helpful. Like the song says one day all them bags are going to get in your way. You will miss out on a lot of living if you can’t put the baggage down.

It could be anything from family issues, women issues, or even childhood issues. I know sometimes it is hard to let go, but you have to at some point. I am learning from the people I have met in my life, that it is just too heavy sometimes. I like to help people and I like to talk to people (sometimes) so I hear a lot.

Are you meeting people with A LOT of baggage? Too much for you to carry with them?

I must say that I am an all in kind of girl. If you are someone I care about , I will help you do anything I can. If you have some stuff that is heavy, I will help you carry it.

BUT…

How much is too much? Where do you draw the line?

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