Is it okay for a woman who you are with to be completely in the closet? Does she need to to be all the way out?
I need for her to be pretty much out to the important people in her life. You don’t have been waving a rainbow flag or anything. But, I can’t be the only one that knows you’re a lesbian.
It would make me feel uncomfortable if you invite me to do something with your family and I don’t even know who I am supposed to act. Am I a friend? A lover? A roommate? Doesn’t feel right.