Do you need to know where your partner is most of the time? Do you think you/they should say where you went or where your going? Who you/they are with?
May take on it—you ask?
Well, I do believe we should know where the other is most of the time. Generally speaking of course. I obviously would not need to know every little move you made for the day. I don’t think a call/text is needed to say you went to get tampons. But, you know if your going out..I want to know. Or if a plan changes..I want to know. I naturally just say what happened in my day and I will tell you if I have upcoming plans as well.
What is the secret? Why wouldn’t I just mention that after work I am going to stop off to do some shopping? If am going to hang out with a friend, why can’t I just mention that as well? Of course there will be times when something may slip our minds. But, you know what I mean.
Do you think someone is secretive if they won’t or don’t want to say where they are or who they are with? Is it just a matter of holding onto your individuality? Will it make it feel like you “can’t” do what you want anymore?
It is a respect thing when your in a relationship. It is about making the other person comfortable without even needing or being told to do so. It isn’t a chore for me at all.
This is another way to get to know your partner. You can learn how they are when they go out, where they go, what they like to do, who they like to spend time with etc. This is especially true in newer relationships. After a while you may not need to know as much, because you will probably already feel you know. You would have already learned their patterns etc.
You should be single or just dating if you don’t want to account for your time.