How does this trust thing work?
Do you just enter into a relationship and trust this person from the gate?
Or do you start out with no trust at all?
I start somewhere in the middle. Kind of indifferent, really. I don’t trust you or not trust you immediately. I don’t know you yet. The things you do or say will determine which direction this trust thing will go. If I feel like your being honest and open, then my trust will increase. If I feel your dishonest or something isn’t right it will decrease.
I do not want to just come into it not trusting a thing you say. That is usually based on past experiences and I like to give people their own chance.
I also won’t just be eating up every word that you say like an asshole. You won’t be telling me you have a bridge over in Brooklyn, that you would like to sell me. Nah, honey. I will call you out on it EVERY TIME…and if I don’t…I probably don’t care enough to waste my breath.
Generally, I am cautious. I am very skeptical. I go off of vibes. If I meet someone and I get a good vibe from them… that is usually a good sign. If I get a bad vibe, I AM ALWAYS right that your probably not a good person. If I don’t get a vibe @ all…then you could be either or hiding something very well.