Empty My Brain

1. I forgot my salad dressing at home and had to buy some more. It was French and it was good. But I bought 2 bottles of something “new” yesterday, guess I will try something “new” tomorrow.

2. Asians girls are bringing sexy back in their own lil way, aren’t they? When did they become so fashionable? I guess it pays to have an uncle who owns a sweat shop, huh? (take a joke people). I might pay this girl a compliment. I think she speaks English, I kid, I kid. I am almost positive she speaks lol.

3. I  have never dated an Asian woman.

4. My hair is so dry, feels like Ramen Noodles. This weather is no joke on my hair, any tips? Might be time to weave and or braid this up for a few months. I really wanted my hair to be free though. I want to itch as I please. But, I also want to have some left come summer. Oh, I am a “natural” girl now. Maybe, I will show a quick pic and take it down, lol.

5. I need “work clothes.” As a matter a fact, I just need to go shopping period.

6. I want to cuddle.

7. I like Wale.

8. “Urban” white people are a sight to see, or not.

9. This “opt-out” of state testing is really becoming a thing in NYC city schools. It is something to consider, I suppose.

Feel free to be random with me…add yours or feel free to comment.

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Babysitter Kidnaps Baby & Convinces Her Boyfriend That It’s Their Child

Lesbian Brooklynite:

Was she serious?

Originally posted on HelloBeautiful:

Desperation reached a whole new level for 22-year-old Javeele Thomas. She stole Jalayia Gonzalez, the 4-month-old baby she was babysitting to convince her boyfriend that she’d had his baby. Jalayia is the child of a friend of Thomas’.

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According to reports, back in May or June of 2014, Thomas told her boyfriend that she was pregnant and that he was the father. In October, Thomas lost their child and stopped talking to her boyfriend. “She re-established contact with the father, telling him she was out of town and that she had had the baby,” said Chief Monty Giddens to WKRN. “She made arrangements to babysit Jalayia and meet her boyfriend, and she presented Jalayia to him as their child,” Giddens added.

The Gonzalez family reported their infant daughter and Thomas missing from Nashville, Tennessee when they…

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Tossing Salad….anyone?

How do you feel about it? People tend to feel strongly one way or another? Or, no?

Me? I think it feels great having it done to me. It’s like a nice relaxing massage. Kind of like a treat.

Are there people who have had it done and didn’t like it?

What about being the giver? Do you feel like you are giving the ultimate pleasure to your partner?

Personally, I think “anal anything” should be reserved for someone very special. Unless you are a gay man. They seem to do it to anyone lol. No shade though…they do the damn thing in those porn videos. I see yall!

Is there a squeamish factor? Will you kiss the person afterwards? Are there certain rules that must be followed?

Oh, the things that run across my mind.

I started a new gig for the city. It’s cool. It’s temporary. I’m working with the agency still trying to handle all the Hurricane Sandy issues. So, once they are finally finished repairing and reimbursing people, they will close up shop. So, I’ll be here until I’m not. You should see the office I am in yall. They had zero cubicles, so I have the receptionist’s office. There is glass all around and people keep asking me shit I don’t know. Let’s hope I get a cubicle. But really, I’d rather be sitting here then at home making nada. So, I shall be the fish in the fishbowl while I cash this check lol.



I did a post for another blogger some time ago at Kera Dangerous.

I wanted to ask you guys how you felt about PDA. I like PDA. I dont mean damn near having sex or anything, but some flirting, kissing, touching in a discreetish manner is cool for me. It can be sexy too. You know the whole thing of not being able to really have sex, but having fun thinking about it? I know everyone isn’t down. My sister said it is cool if you are proud of the person. Is that true? Does it have to do with pride or maybe just being embarrassed by all this sexual outdoors?

What do you think?


What is the point of dating?

Hey Folks!

I almost forgot about my cute little blog. I  missed chit-chatting with yall.

So, I was having a conversation today with my homie. I think I had another name for her on this blog. I’ll check it out later. But, anyway she is actively dating. The young man she is dating now is a virgin. Yep, a close to 30-year-old virgin. Okay, that is fine. His body. His decisions. In this situation dating means: Met online, had 2-3 dates.  He would like to have another/more dates.

Do you think dating should lead to sex? Can you actively pursue a relationship/continue dating if sex probably wont happen?

I don’t know man. I am not about the whole save yourself for marriage stuff, unless you are actually a virgin. That born-again virgin stuff doesn’t work for me. It is a good idea an all, but for me? Nah, I’m cool.

Plus, I think if you are waiting until nearly 30…why even throw it away at a dime?!

Anyway, I believe I could date a virgin. That could is REALLY strong.  I could not date someone seriously if I had to wait for marriage for sex.

Chime in…




They got me…I was fired!

Remember when I told you guys about the issues I had at my job? Well, problem solved. I was fired. Yep, they weren’t trying to hear me, so they fired me for speaking up for myself. My boss was crying; They went over her head. If someone is fired their supervisor makes the call. Well, because they knew she wouldn’t be down with the bullshit, they just came and fired me. (The same asshole I had an issue with before). Long story shorter, I am looking into suing the organization. I was a good employee. I did my work and got along well with my Director and co-workers. My sister’s friend is a labor attorney and I asked her to speak to her about my options.

I have spoken about the bullshit they are on a few times.

They were looking for another sheep and I am just not with it. They do some fucked up shit and people complain quietly. I speak to who ever spoke to me. I do not initiate contact. But, once I am contacted, I feel, I am free to speak on my own behalf. Yea, well no. I knew I risked being fired for not allowing them to bullshit me. I did think they would have written me up for some some fake-shit or something. I had a clean record; I was never reprimanded or written up. They didn’t bother to go through the normal channels. They created a new firing process for me. The ‘Sucka’ came to Brooklyn, from the Headquarters in Manhattan and told me I had 30 minutes to leave the building. Then he came into my office and started counting down. He was rushing me out the door. I worked there for years and I had 30 minutes to organize myself. He is a piece of work. He is a black man too. If only he knew the organization will never be grateful to him.

Do you know what though? I feel so good. I am happier. I feel better about my future. I was so sick of the fuckery with them. Family and friends were kind of surprised about me acting all cool. But, I don’t feel stressed. I didn’t own that company, so I didn’t lose that much. I just gained some time back into my days. I swear I feel like every day was just flying and I wasn’t really seeing the life around me. I am enjoying this time off. I am going to cherish it, because I know it can’t last forever. As long as my kids and I have a roof, food and our bills are paid, I would be a fool to complain. I am grateful. 

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A sister still has to eat!


Empty My Brain

It is time for me to empty my brain again. Let me see what is going on up there…


  • I am over the snow.


  • I need to become successful on my own, sooner rather than later. I am a bit too rebellious to work for some people. We have a new H.R. Manager who believes I should be doing his work. No, Sir. It was my first time meeting him during a meeting on Friday. And meet me he did. They pay you more, but I should do your work? I guess this is ’12  Years a Slave’ over here. Fire me


After leading the pack and telling him, I felt it was a slap in the face to call a meeting giving us more work to do –  his work to do – without more pay or even a updating our job description, he agreed we should have a one-on-one. I was down. I went to his office to continue our conversation. I dont care how pretty and formal they make it. I don’t care if they use the nice conference room and buy pizza. I am not a slave. This is modern day America. You want more, you pay more and put it in writing.

I felt like he was pissing on me and calling it rain. Or fucking me in a way I don’t like and telling me, I love it. No, I do not like that. I actually hate that very much! Thanks but no thanks! I refuse and I need to know the next steps, after saying NO. So, today he will be following up with me regarding our meeting with a phone call.

  • Sex is on my mind.
  • I can’t stand when people do not speak up for themselves. There were 4 of us “invited” to the meeting. The 4 people who were getting more duties. Do you know not ONE of those other women said shit? I was over the whole meeting and all the attendees. They were taking notes and shit. The fuck are you taking notes for? This man started 2 months ago, he isn’t saying anything new. Same ol’ shit. The difference was he was explaining it in a way, that made it our duties. When it has always been the HR manager’s duties. He decided he had too much work to do and wanted to “simplify” the process. Nah, I am cool. I thought it was already simple.

But yea, they were eating it up. I was eating my slice and sipping my soda. I didn’t write shit…didn’t ask shit and wasn’t interested in the whole shit. The others had the nerve to be “looking” at me in “agreeance.” Then after the meeting, they were on the “same page” as me. Sheep. A bunch of fucking sheep! They had a whole lot to say when the meeting was over. What ever, you do the work with bells on. Don’t they know we are more powerful in numbers?

  • I want to go on a vacation this year.
  • They should give “Mommy of the Year” awards. I want one.
  • I am having a really good time dating.

That is all for now…


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